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When I say sorry, I mean it a its smart people always say sorry, whereas stupid people always wait for smart people to say sorry.

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A person says give me a chance to listen to me but stupid people always complete their statement and stops without listening to others who is ready to say sorry even without their fault, it is not that he is wrong or accepting his mistakes but he accepts and says sorry to maintain the relation with others person because he is smart and gives value to relations instead fighting and not saying sorry.

SORRY has depth in it, it is not a word to let down someone rather you can maintain a good relationship with that particular person for long.

As per perfect saying, ” I AM NOT PERFECT, I MAKE MISTAKES, I HURT PEOPLE ” but when I say S O R R Y I mean it.

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Sorry or Apologies also means that one should never repeat the same mistake again else it doesn’t make any sense to say sorry.

This is one of the hardest thing in life to say sorry to someone and accept your mistakes…

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Moral : Spread happiness , love and affection and avoid hate and jealous.

First thing in the morning you must see yourself in the mirror, admire yourself and say ” I AM THE BEST AND I LOVE MYSELF ” you will never feel low, dishearten throughout the day, don’t feel low when someone doubts on your caliber Just be proud of yourself . Because people always doubt the ‘ GOLD ‘ for it’s ‘ purity ‘ not the ‘ iron ‘ however let people have doubt on you but you don’t lose your purity which is inhearent not to show off…

God will be with you when you will stand for yourself and love yourself then only you can expect love affection and respect from others , else you will let down yourself in your own eyes hence no cheating to love yourself. Love yourself in terms of take care of yourself , eat healthy food timely, think positive beat hell or heaven breaks. Because if you are healthier and happier then only you would be taking care of your family and to keep your surroundings happy. That’s the thumb rule of happy family. Once there was a poor mother, used to live at remote place with her young daughter, old lady used to work somewhere to run the show. She used to earn very less money for survival, she always try to feed her daughter before sleep wether she could feed herself or not but she never mention it to her daughter that she’s sleeping without food most of the time. Sudden old lady fall sick and couldn’t go to work also couldn’t fed her daughter as she was so young that she couldn’t go for work to earn or to take care of her old sick mother, however both mother and daughter fall sick together because they had nothing to eat for more than 3-4 days however they both died one day. But couldn’t save each other.

Moral of the story is; Try to love yourself at least to take care of your family.

If the old lady might have eaten some portion of food with her daughter she could have survived and could have worked more for better survival.

Its good to have trust on someone but at the same time its advisable not to trust blindly on anyone.When you get cheated then it feels very sad as its very common now a days. People will be very friendly and loving on your face but the moment you will turn your face or they’ll get a chance to mingle with others they’ll start talking against you just to show to them that they are more reliable to them but they repeat the same with them as well. People just want to solve their purpose to be more friendly with you to make full use of you to be successful in their mission, sometimes focus is money, betray, fun or due to typical nature which can be harmful for being cheated due his / her soft and trustworthy nature, still ‘NO WORRIES’ beat you are cheated by someone to whom you trusted, God is there for everyone to do the justice for every individual. 

It takes ages to build the trust but it can spoiled in a minute. However, we should never ruin somebody’s trust who has blind faith on you. You need to trust yourself before saying someone that I trust you.

 “I don't trust people who don't trust themselves and tell me, 'I trust you.'

Trust is earned, when actions meet words. Trust yourself, you will start trusting others its hence proved formula –

Since emotions are attached to trust hence if you break someone’s trust you will certainly play with their emotions. However never play with people’s emotions, spread love affection to maintain the trust.  

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE >>>

Love is everything with lot of meaning in it, it has depth of feelings in it. Love has separate language to understand. Love can be understand by positive people only – negative people cant understand language of Love.

But Love should be unconditional as love has no limitations. As per lot of Authors  real love, true love is essence of purity. unconditional love can be divided into various types;

Love – Love can be of siblings, among parents, relatives etc., Expectations actually kills you from inside, love is “given freely” to the loved one “no matter what”. Loving is primary. Conditional love requires some kind of finite exchange, whereas unconditional love is seen as infinite and measureless. Unconditional love should not be mistaken with unconditional dedication: unconditional dedication or “duty” refers to an act of the will irrespective of feelings (e.g. a person may consider they have a duty to stay with someone); unconditional love is an act of the feelings irrespective of will.

 Affection –  Friends can be affectionate, neighbors can have affection for each others family and kids while meeting in family get togethers , children playing at common playing area in the society but this affection or love cant be unconditional, as n when any one will feel sometiong they will argue with you or will try to let you down infront of others to take a kind of revenge which is not a sign of uncondiotional love.

Understanding – very few people understand us or vice – versa. In today’s world people are so selfish as they always look for their own self instead others happiness. Where they have self benefit they will work on that particular area but on the other hand they will keep on showing we are with you and can never betray you but when time comes then nobody think for others due to selfishness.

Charity – Study on animals has proved and considered that dogs are the best example of unconditional love as they only give but never expect whereas in, Human expectation is the only problem. Without expectation human can never help or support someone. Love should be act as give and forget without expecting back.

“ LET THE E..GO FROM YOUR LIFE TO BE MORE HAPPY IN LIFE “

ACTUALLY WE CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT ‘E’ AS IT IS IMPORTANT AND VALUABLE IN EACH AND EVERYONES LIFE.

In today’s world one cannot survive without E-mails, E-tickets, E-recharge, E-transfer, E-paper, E-Governance, E-commerce and so on.,

E-verything  E-asy for E-veryone E-veryday… these words were also made by someone

‘E’ also represents ‘Efforts and ‘Energy’…

Moreover to be ‘better’ from ‘good’  both ‘e’ s are required.

Without ‘E’ we would have no love, life, wife, friends, hope, health and wealth. Hence ‘E’ plays major roll to keep you happy n healthy.

Same way you can’t see, hear, smell or taste as “eye”  “ear” “nose” and “tongue” are incomplete without ‘e’

However GO with ‘E’ but without E-GO as Ego eliminates you and your existence.

                                “ KEEP THE EGO AWAY “

You should be proud of yourself and have confidence in you. Ego problem is due to low self-esteem. When people do not have confidence, they have low self-esteem resulting to big ego. … Once you are sure it’s nothing like pride, self-respect or attitude but the ego only, just sit for a while & think what this ego is for.

Ego can spoil relationships in husband wife , brother sister, neighbors’, colleagues etc., People feel lonely when they feed ego.  No good relationship can be spoiled with any weapon even but ego can spoil all the relations within a second.  

HOW TO AVOID EGO IN YOU ?

• Sit alone at peace and think for your true self
• What you are and what kind of ego you have
• Try to change yourself to be good listener and to be more polite
• Work hard on tolerance and determine not to be easily offended. 
• Have patience and wait for your turn to speak to give your input
• Write your week points to improve
• Spend time with anybody maybe with less than 5 years child or more than 60 years old person

Everyone has an ego but we should know how to control it, that shouldn’t spoil any relation of love and peace, If we will just focus on ego then certainly there’ll be tremendous loss as ego doesn’t have any relationship skills. Instead, the ego tries to manipulate as a means to give and receive love.

Ego gives only hurts, hates, dislikes as it doesn’t have any language to understand by others. Who are having ego inside they always think that theyre right always but that’s not right  and not acceptable by others who aren’t carrying their lives with ego.

Last but not the least let “E” GO from your life and place infront of GO..”E”..enjoy your life

This is my first Blog on ” Bebebhookhlagi ” ‘ BEBE BHOOKH LAGI’

” Bebebhookhlagi ” It is a significant of hunger,  Hunger can be of various types like hunger  ( Bhookh – Starving ) , Money, Peace, Success, Love,  Hate, Passion and so on..,

Todays Topic ; Hunger – Starving

Everything Is co-related to each other, one can observe easily within oneself what sought of hunger is there inside you.  One cannot think well, love well and  sleep well unless he has not dined well. It also matters a lot what you actually eat to live happy and stress less life. To make your life meaningful , you need to work hard on your eating patterns. Eating patterns plays a major role in life – with whom you are eating ? what your eating and time of eating .

Breakfast ; should be done by 7:30 – 8 AM but no carbs to be added in the breakfast, its difficult specially for North Indians but not impossible however start changing your eating habbits to work on better life style ( once you will adopt this pattern you will lead to look more young ) .
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Lunch : Take carbs during lunch time with normal style like, pulses, curd , any vegetable and chapatti or boiled rice but quantity should be less than what you take normally but add plenty of green salad.

Dinner : Never eat cabs  and fruits after 7 pm for better eating habits, you can replace fruits and carbs by salads and soups after 7 pm. If at all feeling  more hungry then Non vegetarian should eat roasted chicken and Vegetarian should eat roasted soya chaap  or raosted paneer tikka sometimes. But not to be habitual of taking paneer lababdaar with butter naan or Butter chicken with butter naan in dinner.

Snacks : Take snacks in between breakfast – lunch , and  Lunch – dinner

Healthy snacks can be taken to fill the gaps from meal to meal. Fruits can be taken around 10:30 – 11 am to fill the gap inbetween breakfast and lunch , similarly salads , nuts , soup, boiled corns can be taken to fill the gap in between lunch and dinner.

Try to avoid Tea / Coffee and replace it with plenty of water in take ( atleast 3 ltrs in day )

                                    “ I AM ON A HAPPY DIET , I ONLY EAT THINGS THAT MAKES ME HAPPY “

When you feel hungry  then you eat anything what is readily available as we cant make hunger wait… What we eat in those situations Junk food, chat, any ready snack like samosa burger, bread pakoras , patties, pastries, momos and so on>>> But we never realise these ready available food items can be badly affected to our health  and can destroy our internal metabolism function, this is a lust of hunger. 

            “ HAPPINESS IS GREAT FOOD AND GREAT COMPANY “

Keeping loving yourself , eat healthy live happily .